In this guide, we will be looking at how to meditate lying down in bed, either before bed or simply any time you want to relax and don’t feel like sitting up.
A lot of readers have been asking me: Is it okay to do meditation lying down in bed or do you have to meditate sitting up? And honestly, I personally do meditate lying down because I find it very relaxing and after I have had a hard day it’s nice to recline. It makes me more relaxed. However, it is perhaps not ideal.
Obviously, if you are meditating to get to sleep at night, it’s a no-brainer that you might like to be reclined when you do it, unless you particularly enjoy sleeping while sitting up.
But what about at other times? Is it okay to just abandon the proper seated method and switch it with something like Savasana instead?
What about meditating lying VS sitting? Which is the better option for you, and really what is the difference anyway?
Why Meditate Lying Down In Bed?
Let me ask you a question: why do you want to meditate lying down in bed?
Sure, meditating in bed is one of the best ways to practice at home, because it’s easier, right? I personally do practise in bed and I find that it is relaxing but it doesn’t give me the same amount of focus that I get from sitting up.
Most people want to stretch out on the mattress when they practice mindfulness. Simply put: they want to relax while they meditate.
Buddha actually said that this is okay in certain times. The Satipatthana Sutta  says, “And further, monks, a monk knows, when he is going, “I am going”; he knows, when he is standing, “I am standing”; he knows, when he is sitting, “I am sitting”; he knows, when he is lying down, “I am lying down”; or just as his body is disposed so he knows it.“
However, in many cases it is not ideal.
The reason most people want to meditate lying down is that it requires less effort. But there is supposed to be effort involved with the practice. If your entire plan is not to bother putting in any effort, you really are not going to get a lot out of your practice.
I’ll be honest, often when I meditate on my back it is because I want to chill out and unwind and I don’t want to put too much effort in, possibly because I’m tired after a long day. But my attitude at those times isn’t the best.
You wouldn’t go to the gym and not bother because you wouldn’t lose weight.
And if your attitude going into mindfulness is not to bother then you won’t get much out of it either.
So, the first thing to ask yourself is: If you want to practice meditation lying down in bed, is it just because it takes less effort? If so, consider what you might get out of your sessions if you tried a little harder.
Reclining impedes focus
There is a reason why some meditation techniques specifically ask you to sit up.
For instance, in Zen meditation, you must sit properly, in lotus position. This isn’t about stretching your thighs. It’s about the fact that when your body is properly balanced, you will focus better .
- Sit down
- Close your eyes
- Take ten breaths while focusing on your breath
- Now lie down.
- Try to focus your mind as much while lying down as you did when sitting down.
- Were you able to focus equally? For some people, the answer will be no.
After yoga (Savasana)
Funny thing is, even though lying down to meditate is often not ideal, there are some specific meditation techniques that specifically ask you to do it.
When my students ask me “Can I meditate lying on my back” I say yes, at certain times. For instance, it is traditional to end yoga practice with a period of resting (usually an Emptiness practice). This is generally done in Corpse Pose (Savasana).
However, this is a lot different to simply lying down to meditate. When we do this yogic practice, we’ve already warmed up the body (which also warms up the mind), and we are focused and energized from the exercise. That’s totally different to merely crashing out on your mattress.
If you have warmed up your body (and thereby your mind) and you are able to lie down in Savasana (not an easy pose to master) then yes, by all means, meditate lying down.
But I suspect this is not the case for most people.
What if you need to lie down while meditating because you are too ill, or injured, to sit-up for an extended period of meditation.
In this case, you could always try using a proper seat.
However, if sitting down is just not an option, then yes, by all means, lie down.
My mother-in-law is currently unable to sit up because of a severe health condition. To meditate, she literally has no choice but to meditate lying down.
Still, it is not ideal, and it is better to sit if you are able.
But, meditating while lying down is still better than just lying down.
If you are meditating while lying down in bed on top of regular meditation, then this is really just a bonus, in which case you should go for it.
Truth is, if you’re lounging around anyway, you might as well do it mindfully.
The Health Benefits Of Meditating Lying Down
Lying down mindfully (and with good posture) will:
- Improve circulation
- Reduce the chance of injury (for instance, waking up with a sore back in the morning)
- Help when you have asthma or another breathing problem
- Create a deeper state of relaxation (which is good for mental health)
- Makes you feel great when you wake up in the morning.
Hw To Meditate While Lying Down In Bed Properly
Much like there are right ways to sit meditating, there is a right way to lie down too.
- Clear out the distractions. Whatever you can do to get rid of the distractions, do it. Send that last email. Do the dishes. You know the drill. Get it done. It will be worth it.
- Get in bed, close the bedroom door, create a silent atmosphere. And if you can’t have silence because of the kids or the TV in the background, just put some relaxing music on.
- Take a few moments to stretch and relax. I like to do some basic yoga or tai-chi before bed to relax my body. You probably already know this, but a relaxed body does help to create a relaxed mind. But if you’re pushed for time just make sure to get nice and comfy in the bed.
- Take five or ten minutes just to focus on your breathing
- Now, once your mind feels calm and still, bring your focus to your body. Tune in to your body and focus your mind on your entire physical being. Body scan meditation is suitable for this. Mainly, you want to feel as though your mind and body are one. It’s as though your mind is balancing on your body, while your body is completely relaxed on the bed.
- Finally, imagine stepping back in your mind. You’re focusing on you, but you take a little step back. You want your mind to be focusing on your entire body.
The two best positions for mediating lying down in bed are Savasana and the Alexander position.
1: Lie on your back with your legs straight and arms resting at your side.
2: Your hands should be approximately six inches from our body and your palms should face the ceiling.
3:Let your body feel heavy on the floor
4: Release your entire body, face, and eyes.
2: Alexander Technique Position
Buddhist teacher Bodhipaksa on WildMind suggests lying on your side. “Oddly, very few people seem to try meditating lying on their side, even though images of the Buddha doing this are abundant,” says Bodhipaksa. “This is actually quite a comfortable posture to meditate in. I’ve used this when I’ve been sick, or when I’ve wanted to meditate at the end of the day and have felt physically exhausted. “
The Right Way And The Wrong Way To Meditate Lying Down In Bed
Truth is: There is a way to meditate lying down in bed properly. And there’s a way to do it improperly.
Lying down in bed the wrong way: You feel like relaxing, so you take yourself off to your room, away from the kids, away from the dog / cat, away from everything. You lie down. But in your mind you’re still thinking about the kids, the mortgage, work; it’s like you carried all those things into the bedroom with you. They’re stuck on your mind the same way a bunch of cockle-burs get stuck on your clothing. And you don’t know how to stop thinking. I’ll be honest, I’ve often done this when I’m tired and I don’t feel like meditating. But it isn’t very helpful.
Doing it the right (mindful) way: The mindful way of lying down in bed is like this. You feel like relaxing so you take yourself off to your room, away from the kids, away from the dog / cat, away from work, away from everything. You lie down. And in your mind you are doing absolutely nothing except lying down.The kids, the housework, your job, they’re gone. It’s just you and your bed, your lovely, lovely bed. You’re lying down in bed in body. And you’re lying down in bed in mind too. That’s the difference. Your mind is lying down too. This is now my personal favourite way to lie down because it relaxes my mind and my body at the same time.
When you need to relax in bed, it’s not just your body that needs to lie down. Sure, after the vacuuming, the cooking, your work, looking after the kids and everything else, you are physically tired. But you’re mentally tired too.
That’s why you need to relax both your body and your mind. That’s why when your body does nothing but lie down on the bed, your mind should do nothing but lie down on the bed too.
Meditating lying down in bed is not ideal. But I get it. You’ve had a long day. You want to practice, but you also want to relax. Go ahead and meditate lying down.
It’s not ideal, but it’s a lot better than not practicing, and you will still benefit from it. And as well as doing this before bed you can also lie down for your morning meditations to wake up.