As a compassionate parent, you want your kids to be healthy, happy, relaxed, and well behaved. One way to get there is with my daily mantras for kids. Mantras and affirmations for kids can help them to develop positive mindsets. Combining mindfulness with positive affirmations for kids gives them the power to stay mentally strong [read: teaching kids mindfulness exercises.]
Child and family counselor Christina Furnival states that affirmations are “an incredible encourager for little ones.” Teaching kids mantras and affirmations is a great way to help them focus and to boost their wellbeing. According to the psychology of self-affirmation theory’ (Steele 1988) kids can improve their confidence and self esteem by reciting positive mantras and affirmations. Plus, MRI studies shows that activity in the prefrontal cortex increases when kids use affirmations.
The Salem New Age Center states that affirmation helps build “a positive mental attitude supported by affirmations will achieve success in anything.” However, there is a science to mantras and they do need to be written in a specific way. They should be in the present tense, personal, specific, and positive, according to The Positive Affirmation Community.
While science may have rebuked some of the statements in self help books like Rhonda Byrne’s The Secret and Napoleon Hill’s book Think and Grow Rich, there is nevertheless genuine benefits of positive affirmations for kids and they are an important part of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) and Neuro Associative Conditioning, the system advocated by Tony Robbins. And a scientific study in 2009  showed that affirmations for kids do help with developing a positive mindset.
With the problem of bullying in school it is imperative to help kids feel good about themselves and to overcome negative thinking patterns. One way to accomplish that is by teaching kids affirmations and mantras. [read my beginners mantra meditation guide]
Reading the guide above will give you all the background information you need so that you can educate your son or daughter properly about sacred sounds and affirmations.
As well as affirmations there are spiritual mantras for kids. Some sacred sounds and affirmation (especially Kundalini Mantras) are very musical. They have a pleasant melody that is fun to recite. The gentle repetition of a musical mantra is a relaxing and enjoyable activity for both parents and kids. Science shows that humming tunes makes us happy. And the same is true for mantras. Humming a simple mantra helps the mind to relax and also creates a fun little activity to do with your son or daughter.
Amazingly, science shows that reciting mantras helps kids with sinus problems. One of the leading causes of sinus problems is that particles get stuck in the nose and other places, which reduces airflow and makes it harder for the sinuses to clean themselves out. When we recite sacred sounds, we create vibrations in the sinuses that help to shake those particles loose and to get things flowing again. This can help your little ones with everything from a cold to allergies. The simple act of reciting or singing a mantra is a critical meditative practise that helps to focus the mind.
Try humming to yourself for a few moments, and you will see how this works. Go ahead and hum. Notice how your mind gets drawn into the humming sound and how your thoughts fall silent? The simple act of humming quietens the mind and helps us to concentrate.
This is similar to a yoga technique called brahmari (“the bee”), a gentle humming technique, which is one of my favourite yoga breathing exercises.
Mantras work in the same way. The mind is attracted to the sound of the mantra. As we practice Japa, we enter a meditative state that boosts focus and concentration. This can be great for helping the little ones to study for school.
There are powerful spiritual mantras for focus and concentration too.
When you teach kids mantras, you give them a quick and easy way to relax. Science shows that vocal exercises like humming and mantras help to stimulate the promote relaxation. Reciting a mantra is an act of discipline. It takes a focused and still mind to sit and recite a mantra. Children learn to focus on one thing and to be inwardly (and outwardly) still through these simple exercises. The combination of discipline, relaxation, and focus mean that mantras will help kids to behave better at school and home.
The Best Daily Mantras For Kids (Affirmations)
There are many mantras for kids. Affirmations are available all over the internet and choosing the right one can be a bit of a challenge. It depends on what you hope to get out of the experience. Let’s take a look at my favourite mindful mantras for kids.
Whether you’re a parent teaching your son or daughter, or you’re a meditation teacher focusing on teaching the young, I can highly recommend these mantras and affirmations.
I find that the best way to explain mantras to kids is with this definition, “A mantra is a simple word or phrase that makes us feel good.” And if you’re wondering how to explain meditation to kids so you can teach them mantras, I usually like to just say, “It’s about being nice to your mind and creating good thoughts”.
1: “I can handle it”
This one is all about helping your children to have positive self talk.
I learned this one from Laurie Wright. This is one of the best mantras for kids wellbeing because it teaches them to think that they can handle any problem that comes along. It’s also really good at helping them to find confidence.
“Om” is the best mantra for kids health, especially if you are working with a child who struggled to focus.
Om is a very important mantra for spiritual reasons (it is the sound of origin), but it is also one of the simplest sounds to make.
What to do:
- Create a musical game around “Om”
- Get the kids together.
- Use an instrument (or sing) to go up and down the musical scale (move up and down in pitch).
- Sing “Om” on each note.
- Continue for five minutes.
This is a simple and fun game that helps them to focus on one thing at a time. It will also promote better behaviour at school and at home.
Om is also very relaxing because it produces gentle vibrations in the body that lead to calmness. For this reason, Om is one of the best mantras for an angry child.
3: “Let it go” (with reference to Frozen)
Kids love Frozen. I mean, they really really really love it. And a lot of adults do too. Personally, I wasn’t too blown away by it (I’ll take Bambi or Bolt any day). But there is one part of the movie I talk about every week: Let it go. If you’ve not seen Frozen, “Let It Go” is the title track. Try using this song as a mantra for elementary school students—just use the “Let it go” part. These three words are perfect for teaching children to let go of thoughts, feelings and live in the moment.
4: “Be The Pond.”
Read the story below. We’re going to use it to build a mantra for kids in elementary school.
A preschool teacher tells a story about fish swimming around a pond.
There’s a sad fish, an angry fish, an excited fish, a happy fish, and so on.
The teacher asks the students to close their eyes and imagine the fish swimming around them.
Then the teacher says “Be the pond.”
Be the pond.
The first time I read that story I was extremely impressed by how poignant a story it is for children. It so perfectly illustrates the relationship between consciousness and thoughts and feelings. Concepts like consciousness and emotions are often expressed in grand exegeses. This story cuts straight to the point. And it is so simple to understand.
The pond lets all the fish swim within it. It accepts all things with equanimity. It is calmness and compassion personified.
WHAT TO DO
- Get the children sitting in a group
- Ask them to close their eyes
- Read the story above
- Ask them to open their eyes.
- Say “Be the pond”
- Remind them that they are the pond that lets all the fish swim freely.
- Ask them to recite the mantra “Be the pond” 25 times.
This is a beautiful story and an excellent phrase for meditation. It gently teaches oneness and compassion. Fun little stories like this can turn into great mantras for elementary school students.
5: “I am happy, I am good”
One of the best mantras for toddlers is what I call the “‘ lil’ yogi mantra”.
It goes like this:
“I am happy, I am good, I am happy, I am good.”
If the child is a little bit older you can add a little Kundalini yoga mantra to it, so it goe like this:
“I am happy, I am good, I am happy, I am good.”
Sat Naam, Sat Naam, Sat Naam Jee
Wha-Hay Guroo, Wha-Hay Guroo, Wha-Hay Guroo Jee
While singing this mantra the kids should shake their fingers up and down. I’ve shared a video below to make this easier to understand. It’s fun and engaging, which is why it is one of my favourite mantras for middle schoolers.
And that’s it, the four best mantras for kids. I hope you find this truly helpful. Thanks for reading. Please share so other parents and teachers can teach mantras too. Thanks.
1: Wood, Joanne V.; Perunovic, W. Q. Elaine; Lee, John W. (July 2009). “Positive self-statements: power for some, peril for others”. Psychological Science. 2