Teach Your Kids Mindfulness The Safe Way [Tutorial For Caring Parents]

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Mother and daughter practicing yoga on the beach

As a kind, caring parent you want your kids to be happy and joyful. And you probably put a lot of effort into ensuring your family’s health and wellbeing, am I right?

One of the best ways to help kids is to teach mindfulness to them.

It is becoming a new trend: enlightened parents are teaching kids to meditate. And it is the best answer to a serious problem: the epidemic of mental health problems in kids and teens.

In this guide, THE DAILY MEDITATION covers everything caring parents need to know to successfully teach kids to meditate.

Note that I’ve written a separate guide for anyone who wants to become a professional meditation teacher.

Why kids need to learn mindfulness

mother and daughter meditating

There has never been a better time to start teaching kids meditation, and also to teach kids mantras too.

Kids face serious mental health issues today.

Research shows that 30% of girls and 20% of boys aged 12 to 17 have suffered from an anxiety disorder (1)

As a caring parent who fights for your kids health and happiness, you have probably tried very hard to find ways to stop your kids feeling stressed, am I right?

But it isn’t easy.

Scientific research has proven that kids today have more pressure and stress today than in any other generation in history.

“The stress of getting good grades, high scores on standardized tests, and accepted at top-ranked colleges doesn’t encourage happy family dynamics,” says developmental psychologist Marilyn Price-Mitchell Ph.D. (2)

Worse, your kids could be suffering from stress without you being aware (one reason why we invite you to share this post on Facebook to help spread mindfulness among parents so less kids have to endure stress and anxiety).

Millions of kids suffer stress while their parents are unawares.

“It’s not always easy to recognize when kids are stressed out, but short-term behavioral changes — such as mood swings, acting out, changes in sleep patterns, or bedwetting — can be indications. Some kids have physical effects, including stomachaches and headaches,” says KidsHealth.

Put simply, kids are under too much pressure. And it is affecting their health.

For caring parents, mindfulness and meditation offer a way to help children to manage their stress and emotions. What’s more, it can help to improve behavior and cognition, too.

Compassionate parents are starting to teach kids mindfulness along with the other essentials, like stopping their screen addiction.


The massive benefits of meditation for kids

As a caring family member you have likely already heard that there are more than 100 benefits of meditation.

Science has proven that meditation:

  • improves focus
  • makes you smarter
  • increases compassion
  • boosts positive emotions and feelings, such as happiness, confidence, and inner peace
  • reduces negative emotions and feelings like anxiety, depression, and stress
  • click the link above to see the complete list of the benefits of meditation, along with the scientific proof, which I have personally researched in-depth. 

There are some specific ways in which mindfulness helps kids, too.

I’ve been teaching and writing about meditation for ten years and I have helped thousands of parents to teach meditation to their children. I have seen from personal experience the positive effect mindfulness has on kids.

Mindfulness and meditation are game-changers.

Just take a look at this list of the benefits of meditation for kids.

Benefits of meditation for kids and teens:

  • Meditation helps children to develop their focus and attention.
  • There is mounting evidence (4) that meditation helps kids with ADHD. A 2004 study showed that kids who practiced meditation with their parents in a clinical setting twice a week and then continued to practice at home had improved attention span and focus. In another study, teens and their parents completed a mindfulness program and reported fewer stress levels and fewer ADHD symptoms, such as impulsiveness and emotional reactivity.
  • Meditation removes negative thoughts along with worries.
  • Mindfulness helps teens overcome the stress associated with peer pressure.
  • It boosts present-moment mindfulness.
  • Improves cognitive performance
  • Improves overall wellbeing
  • Reduces bad behaviour
  • Improves sleep
  • Helps kids to feel good about themselves
  • Increases calmness
  • Helps with self regulation
  • Heightens awareness
  • Improves connection with nature
  • Increases motivation
  • Boosts confidence
  • Improves optimism
  • Helps with social skills
  • Reduces symptoms of depression
  • Improves academic outcome
  • Increases attention
  • Increases personal goals
  • Reduces anxiety
  • Improves sleep quality
  • Makes kids feel closer to their friends
  • Reduces loneliness
  • Helps regulate blood pressure (5)


Is meditation safe for kids?

As a smart parent you probably know how important it is to consider all health risks of meditation before putting kids on any kind of health practice or medication.

It’s smart to check the risks of meditation too.

Scientific research shows that there are indeed some potential health risks of meditation and especially for kids with epilepsy (meditation can predispose kids to seizures).

But here’s the good news:

Of the 31 major meditation techniques in use today, the majority are 95% safe for children.

That said, caring parents will know to seek professional advice from a healthcare professional before starting a meditation practice.

As a conscious meditation teacher I feel it is my responsibility to pass on this truth. And unlike most online publications, here at THE DAILY MEDITATION we believe in telling you everything you need to know, both good and bad.

So, consider your kid’s individual needs. Parents of children with a history of mental health problems must consult advice from a healthcare professional. And I strongly advise other parents to do the same thing.

But listen:

Mindfulness is perfectly safe for most kids. And it is very beneficial.

So how do you teach kids mindfulness?


What to know before teaching kids / teens meditation / mindfulness

Make sure you follow the general guidelines before starting the mindfulness exercises below.

Know the basics

You want your kids to learn to meditate properly. That’s why it’s essential to know the basics before you begin.

Meditation is about focus, and lot’s of influences effect a child’s ability to focus.

For instance, the environment they are in and the amount of noise in the room can have a huge effect on a kid’s focus levels.

Even the time of day can effect a meditation. For instance, practicing mindfulness when hungry is not ideal because hunger effects mood and concentration.

I’ve written a guide to the basics of meditation, in which I share everything you need to know before you begin. Take a look.


Learn meditation yourself

Writing for the Chopra Center, Bess O’Connor says, “Children copy the behavior of their parents. So starting them on a meditation journey can be as simple as leading by example.” (6)

By learning mindfulness and meditation yourself, you will naturally encourage your kids to be more mindful.

My beginners guide to mindfulness is a great place to start.


Go slow and follow the one-minute-per-year rule

Go slow even if you’re kid is a genius. If you rush you’ll be in danger of giving your child incorrect information. So go slow and make sure that your kids know precisely what they are doing when they meditate.

Remember, half the battle of mindfulness is slowing down the mind. So naturally, a slow approach is best.

Also be sure to follow the “one minute per year rule”.

Many experts agree that the amount of time a kid or teenager can meditate for is roughly one minute for each year they’ve been alive. So, for example, a ten year old can meditate for ten minutes.

Never ever ever do this

Never ever ever criticise your kids ability to meditate.

This is huge.

Self acceptance is 90% of mindfulness. And a parent’s behavior has a huge effect on a kid’s level of self acceptance. That’s why enlightened parents do not judge. Enlightened parents encourage positive behavior by example.


Be realistic

Some kids find it easy to focus and have good behavior. Others don’t.  No big deal. (After all, some of the worst behaved kids go on to achieve great things)

Therefore, do not worry if your kids aren’t immediate Zen masters. There’s a good chance the little terrors will struggle to focus the first time around.  And that is absolutely fine. The more they practice, the better they will be. 


The best mindfulness and meditation techniques for kids

Take a look at my list of mindful habits. They are excellent gentle ways to teach kids to be mindful (and they work for adults, too).

Once you’ve taken a look at that link above, try these meditation techniques.


1.  10 minute mindfulness meditation for children (ages: 10 years old and upwards)

This is a very simple mindfulness meditation for children, and it’s one of the best ways to start teaching meditation to kids.

1. Ask your child to close their eyes and focus on their breathing.

2. Keep an eye on the wall. When two minutes have past, proceed to the next step.

3. Ask them to focus on what they are hearing. It may help if you ask them to describe, in detail, the sounds they are hearing. This makes them tune in to the sounds around them, which will cause them to focus on the present moment, which decreases rumination and help with any negative thoughts.

4. Ask them to pay attention to the sensation of touch. Have them describe what they can feel (for instance, wind on the face, soft grass at their feet etc).

5. Ask them to focus on scents. How does the air smell? Are there any other scents they are aware of? etc.

6. Now move to taste and repeat.

7. Finally, ask them to open their eyes and simply look around. You may ask them to focus on light, on shades and on other visuals to make them mindful of sight.

Benefits of this mindfulness exercise for kids and teens

This meditation exercise makes kids more aware of the present moment and helps them to focus on one thing at a time (in the exercise they focus on the sense one at a time).

In this age of constant stimulation, many children (and adults) struggle to focus. This technique boosts focus and concentration by asking your kids to just zone in on one thing at a time.



2. Mindful Breathing [ages: five years old and upwards]

Another great meditation for kids is mindful breathing.

Breathing meditation is often the best place to start with any sort of meditation practice, so it’s ideal for adult meditators as well as kids.

Remember to follow the one minute rule. Kids should meditate for a maximum of one minute for each years of their life.

  1. Ask your child to sit comfortably with good posture and to close their eyes.
  2. Bring their attention to the sensation of their breath coming and going through the space between their mouth and nose.
  3. Ask them to place both their hands on their stomach and to feel their breath rising and falling from there.
  4. You may also ask them to repeat a simple word as they breathe in and out, saying “In” on in-breaths and “Out” when exhaling.
  5. Work in cycles of five breaths. Have them count five breaths and then ask them to be aware of any thoughts or feelings in their mind.
  6. If they are experiencing thoughts or feelings,, ask them to let go and to return their attention to their breath.

Benefits of this mindfulness exercise for kids

This is a simple mindfulness exercise. It is great for relaxation and it also improves focus and concentration.


 3. Mindful Listening [age: five years old and upwards]

Many kids struggle with listening skills. If your kids struggle to  listen, try this technique.

  1. Ask them to focus on their breathing for a few minutes.
  2. Explain to your child that they are going to hear a sound and that they should focus on the sound as it gets quieter and quieter.
  3. Ask them to nod their head when they can no longer hear that sound.
  4. Start playing some relaxing sounds. For instance, you might like to use a Tibetan singing bowl or an alternative source of what I call “Zen Sounds”–sounds that produce inner calm
  5.  Gradually quieten the sound. When they nod their head (saying they can no longer hear it) have them count five breaths again.
  6. Repeat this exercise once for each year of their age.

Benefits of mindful listening for kids and teens:

The purpose of this exercise is to increase kids’ auditory awareness while also quieting their minds. Because they are focusing on listening to a quiet sound they will naturally stop a lot of the mental noise that they may have (because they need to be inwardly silent in order to listen). This produces mental peace and inner silence. And it is also a good way to improve kids listening skills.


4. Mindful Eating [age: eight years old and upwards]

This exercise makes kids more aware (and more appreciative) of food. It can also help with weight loss and diet.

  1. Gather some food into a plate or bowl.
  2. Remove any wrappers.
  3. Have your child count to five breaths.
  4. Now ask your child to be mindful of the food on the plate, being aware of the feeling, the image and the scent of the food. If they are holding cutlery you may ask them to be mindful of that too.
  5. Ask your child to take a small portion of the food and to eat it slowly while focusing on the taste. Ideally, they will chew slowly and will focus on the activity of eating.
  6. Once they have finished eating, ask them to describe the taste and feeling of the food.
  7. Finally,  ask them to take five mindful breaths.

Benefits of this mindful activity for kids:

This exercise is highly beneficial. It helps kids to be more mindful. And it makes them more aware and more appreciative of food, which can help with any eating problems.


5. Walking [ages: eight years old and upwards]

Walking is one of the traditional meditation exercises in Zen Buddhism and is a great exercise for children. I’ve created a complete guide to Zen Walking to help you get started. But let’s take a look at some specific notes for kids.

  1. Take a short walk with your kid(s) somewhere relaxing and safe.
  2. Ask them to focus on the sensation of movement in their feet and legs.
  3. Continue walking slowly, while focusing on the movement.
  4. If your child shows a lack of concentration at any time, stop walking and have them count five breaths.
  5. After the five breaths, continue to walk mindfully.
  6. After 20 minutes of walking, stop.
  7. Ask them to describe how they feel.

This is one of the easiest and most relaxing meditations there is. Try it at the beach or in the park for a truly relaxing experience.



6. Play [ages: five – ten years old]

In this mindfulness exercise, kids play a fun game like finger-painting, using a sand table, or a similar activity.

  1. Start by asking them to take ten mindful breaths. This will help them to relax and focus.
  2. Now tell your child that they can play in whatever way they like but with one condition: they must be mindful of everything they do. Whatever they choose to do during play, they must focus on it absolutely, as we do when meditating.
  3. Ask your child to be aware of all five senses, being mindful of taste, touch, sight, sound and hearing.
  4. If they lose focus, use five mindful breaths to regain their attention.


This exercise boosts children’s concentration. And it’s fun at the same time.




7: Meditating on Art [ages: five years old and upwards]

Many children love painting and drawing, both of which can easily be turned into meditation practice.  Here’s how.

  1. Find an object that your child wants to draw or paint.
  2. Now ask them to observe every aspect of the object for 5 minutes.
  3. Ask them to describe the shape of the object, the feeling, and so on. This encourages them to practice mindfulness.
  4. They can then draw or paint the object, but they must focus absolutely on the object while they create their art.


This is a great creative exercise that boosts mindfulness and increases awareness.


8: Mindful Cooking [ages: five years old and upwards]

If you’ve tried my Zen Cooking exercise you’ve probably noticed how fun and mentally stimulating cooking can be. Here is a great mindfulness exercise for kids who enjoy cooking.

  1. Get hold of a fun and simple recipe that your child might like to cook (some healthy cookies, for instance).
  2. Gather the ingredients, along with any utensils you need.
  3. Go through the recipe. Each time you get to a new item, ask your kids to mindfully observe that item.
  4. Ask them watch the effect that each new ingredient has one the colour, taste, touch, and smell of the food.
  5. Once the food is ready, have them eat it mindfully (see number 4 in this list)


This mindfulness exercise boosts present-moment mindfulness, encourages kids to be more mindful of what they are eating, and teaches them to cook, all at the same time.


9: Music [ages: any]

A very enjoyable way to teach your children to meditate is by listening to music.  This is actually how I personally learnt mindfulness myself, all those many, many years ago. I played piano and would meditate on the music I was creating. All kids can do this technique, whether they play an instrument or not.

  1. Find a tune that your child can hum or sing (something simple like “Twinkle Twinkle”)
  2. Play the tune to them for a few minutes and ask them to listen closely. They should learn the tune as they listen.
  3. Ask them to recite it to you (either by humming, singing, or playing an instrument)
  4. Ask them to focus on the music 100% while they recite it.
  5. Afterwards, ask them to describe the way the music makes them feel.


This exercise make your kids more aware of sound, and it enhances mind-body connection. By focusing on the movements of their body while they perform the music, your child connects with their body in the present moment, boosting present moment mindfulness. It also makes them more aware of the way they are feeling, which can help with emotional control.



10: Get your friends involved and form a mindfulness group

This final exercise is simple but powerful.

Meditation is much more effective when practiced in a group. I highly recommend informing your friends about meditation for children, and arranging group sessions.

I’ve personally been advocating meditation to both teachers and parents for several years and let me tell you, it is a truly worthwhile cause. Not only does it help both parents, teachers and kids to relax and focus, but it creates a strong, supportive group that in itself is immensely beneficial.



Even more exercises

I have previously shared 25 mindfulness habits, which lots of meditators have found very useful. Take a look at that link. The majority of techniques in the list are suitable for both adults and kids or teens.

Recommended Book: Sitting Still Like A Frog

sitting still like a frog

If you’re looking for a great book to help you teach mindfulness to kids, I highly recommend Sitting Still Like A Frog.

Sitting Still Like A Frog is full of great mindfulness exercises that are perfect for kids.

It’s written by Eline Snel and Myla Kabat Zinn, two renowned mindfulness teachers.


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Scientifically research proves that mindfulness is massively beneficial for kids and teens.

It is saddening that anxiety and depression are at an all time high in kids and teens. The good news is that caring parents can do something about it.

Teaching kids to meditate is one of the best things families can do together. It makes kids healthy and happy, and it teaches them to control their mind and emotions–an essential skill that will be of immense value to them for their whole lives.

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About Paul Martin Harrison 494 Articles
Paul Harrison is a meditation teacher, author and journalist based in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada. Paul has helped thousands of people to discover their true potential. Don’t miss Paul’s inspirational and enlightening book Journey To The Buddha Within You.


  1. You may want to provide the research which states that Mindfulness cures ADHD. I am a firm believer that it may treat the symptoms associated with ADHD and other diagnosis- even behavioral issues (and more). However, to say that it CURES ADHD is a bet of a stretch. Whatever the case may be, providing research studies to your statements gives it more credibility! Breathe easy.

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